How we have kept pain alive and nurtured it…..

Listen to my new episode Relationship Reinvented 2014 Healing Series F at http://tobtr.com/s/5926123. #BlogTalkRadio   How does pain stay alive in you? Who would you be without your pain?  What story does it serve you in purpose?     Love Deeply, Lois and Clark

Parentless Abandon…

Parentless Abandon….. As we embrace the truth about abandonment we also realize that the most vital part of our journey happens when we are brought into the world. In this world we vest in our first true place of connection in the relationship we have with our biological parents. Of this we find that weContinue reading “Parentless Abandon…”

My dear Past,

My dear PAST, I am writing you this letter so you can keep it close to you to understand why I am leaving you, you have given me second guesses, you have made life with others tolerable, and you have always given me the perfect reason to hide myself from others who didn’t deserve it!Continue reading “My dear Past,”

To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014

      The struggle of what comes to us when we are thinking we are not worthy, we are not enough, we are not being heard comes from a place inside that isn’t about the other person, events or what is actually our view point at the time but rather what we are notContinue reading “To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014”

Make 2014 Your year for Healing!!!

Are you Single and Looking for “The One”?

Are you Ready to Give up your search? Tired of finding many fish that need thrown back? Tired of waiting for the call the next day after a date that never comes? Are you wondering what is wrong with you? Do you feel your “LOVE” ship has already sailed? Its getting cold, are you wishingContinue reading “Are you Single and Looking for “The One”?”

Hands

Hands My dream last night was simple, I went on a journey inside of my hands, I was able to feel what my hands felt, it was a journey Ill not forget. I woke up and Clark got up and I called him back over just so I could  touch him, wrapped my arms aroundContinue reading “Hands”

Conflict!!!!!

In Every relationship in our lives, friendships, family, romantic and professional can potentially be destroyed by conflict. The solution is not to ignore the conflict or keep moving around hoping to find the perfect person or perfect people. We need to deal with the problems we currently face, otherwise they will just reappear elsewhere. TheContinue reading “Conflict!!!!!”

Relationships and you….

What is your view on relationships? Friend: I believe it is better to first be the right person instead of finding the right person; all else flows from there. I agree but not without an explanation of this truth! Relationship has a foundation in truth.. You can always see what you will draw to yourselfContinue reading “Relationships and you….”

You are not alone…

Hello in here? Is anyone in here?  Hello in here?  Oh hi! There you are, I was wondering if anyone was here. I see you are busy operating this thing.  How long you been here?  Wait, before you answer I was wondering how did you get in here?  Wait, wait, wait, I need to know,Continue reading “You are not alone…”