Cheating… a truth in Abandonment

Abandoned…. The truth about cheating is that it isn’t about the other person it is about oneself.  The questions no matter the age are what is lacking in yourself that you would seek outside the relationship to be fulfilled.  This form of abandonment is what has continued to happen as a cycle.  At some pointContinue reading “Cheating… a truth in Abandonment”

My dear Past,

My dear PAST, I am writing you this letter so you can keep it close to you to understand why I am leaving you, you have given me second guesses, you have made life with others tolerable, and you have always given me the perfect reason to hide myself from others who didn’t deserve it!Continue reading “My dear Past,”

What is abandonment?

What is abandonment?   As a verb… 1. to forsake completely; desert; leave behind: to abandon a baby; drivers had to abandon their cars   2.  abandon ship the order given to the crew of a ship that is about to sink to take to the lifeboats   3.   to give up completely: to abandon a habit;Continue reading “What is abandonment?”

Communication.. Assuming abandonment

Friend: Hi…feeling really vulnerable, exposed and fearful right now. I am afraid to be honest with him, about it because I feel like its my stuff…this is probably ridiculous, but I am noticing abandonment stuff coming up over little things. Like tonight he didn’t respond to a text when he has mostly done so…and yetContinue reading “Communication.. Assuming abandonment”

Make 2014 Your year for Healing!!!

Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!

Assumption n. 1. The act of taking to or upon oneself: assumption of an obligation. 2. The act of taking possession or asserting a claim: assumption of command. 3. The act of taking for granted: assumption of a FALSE theory. 4. Something taken for granted or accepted as true without proof; a supposition: a valid assumption. 5. Presumption; arrogance. 6. Logic A minor premise. How doContinue reading “Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!”

I’m only human.. born to make mistakes…

So I guess my question is about what is the best way to maintain the faith that such a re-union can and will happen? I understand that it is critical to maintain discipline over the mind (challenging) and stay surrendered in the heart, ever seeking to stay in contact to the best of ones abilitiesContinue reading “I’m only human.. born to make mistakes…”

Know thy self….

The true answer to a question…? The truth answers all questions and doesn’t require thinking to stand in it! It’s when it becomes a lie that thinking stands directly in it and causes a false way into being. What do you think happens when this life is over? As we are shown a line weContinue reading “Know thy self….”

Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!

Friend:  Dear Clark, Once again My twin has hurt my heart. I am struggling with this emotional roller coaster. I am trying to line my self up with my vortex & manifest a new life. I keep thinking that I am good & at peace with where I am. But I am obviously not. ThisContinue reading “Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!”

Conflict!!!!!

In Every relationship in our lives, friendships, family, romantic and professional can potentially be destroyed by conflict. The solution is not to ignore the conflict or keep moving around hoping to find the perfect person or perfect people. We need to deal with the problems we currently face, otherwise they will just reappear elsewhere. TheContinue reading “Conflict!!!!!”