2013 in review Lois and Clark

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog. Here’s an excerpt: The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 59,000 times in 2013. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 22 sold-out performances for that manyContinue reading “2013 in review Lois and Clark”

What is abandonment?

What is abandonment?   As a verb… 1. to forsake completely; desert; leave behind: to abandon a baby; drivers had to abandon their cars   2.  abandon ship the order given to the crew of a ship that is about to sink to take to the lifeboats   3.   to give up completely: to abandon a habit;Continue reading “What is abandonment?”

To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014

      The struggle of what comes to us when we are thinking we are not worthy, we are not enough, we are not being heard comes from a place inside that isn’t about the other person, events or what is actually our view point at the time but rather what we are notContinue reading “To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014”

The TRUTH about the TRUTH!

The Truth about the Truth: Clark and I were driving and having a conversation about a friend who is going through some Relationship Issues, a lot of the times when we are helping someone work through something we often reflect on personal journeys and this time was no different, I went back briefly to aContinue reading “The TRUTH about the TRUTH!”

Communication.. Assuming abandonment

Friend: Hi…feeling really vulnerable, exposed and fearful right now. I am afraid to be honest with him, about it because I feel like its my stuff…this is probably ridiculous, but I am noticing abandonment stuff coming up over little things. Like tonight he didn’t respond to a text when he has mostly done so…and yetContinue reading “Communication.. Assuming abandonment”

Make 2014 Your year for Healing!!!

Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!

Assumption n. 1. The act of taking to or upon oneself: assumption of an obligation. 2. The act of taking possession or asserting a claim: assumption of command. 3. The act of taking for granted: assumption of a FALSE theory. 4. Something taken for granted or accepted as true without proof; a supposition: a valid assumption. 5. Presumption; arrogance. 6. Logic A minor premise. How doContinue reading “Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!”

I’m only human.. born to make mistakes…

So I guess my question is about what is the best way to maintain the faith that such a re-union can and will happen? I understand that it is critical to maintain discipline over the mind (challenging) and stay surrendered in the heart, ever seeking to stay in contact to the best of ones abilitiesContinue reading “I’m only human.. born to make mistakes…”

Know thy self….

The true answer to a question…? The truth answers all questions and doesn’t require thinking to stand in it! It’s when it becomes a lie that thinking stands directly in it and causes a false way into being. What do you think happens when this life is over? As we are shown a line weContinue reading “Know thy self….”

Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!

Friend:  Dear Clark, Once again My twin has hurt my heart. I am struggling with this emotional roller coaster. I am trying to line my self up with my vortex & manifest a new life. I keep thinking that I am good & at peace with where I am. But I am obviously not. ThisContinue reading “Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!”