My dear Past,

My dear PAST, I am writing you this letter so you can keep it close to you to understand why I am leaving you, you have given me second guesses, you have made life with others tolerable, and you have always given me the perfect reason to hide myself from others who didn’t deserve it!Continue reading “My dear Past,”

What is abandonment?

What is abandonment?   As a verb… 1. to forsake completely; desert; leave behind: to abandon a baby; drivers had to abandon their cars   2.  abandon ship the order given to the crew of a ship that is about to sink to take to the lifeboats   3.   to give up completely: to abandon a habit;Continue reading “What is abandonment?”

To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014

      The struggle of what comes to us when we are thinking we are not worthy, we are not enough, we are not being heard comes from a place inside that isn’t about the other person, events or what is actually our view point at the time but rather what we are notContinue reading “To abandon the self…. Abandonment series is coming Jan 2014”

The TRUTH about the TRUTH!

The Truth about the Truth: Clark and I were driving and having a conversation about a friend who is going through some Relationship Issues, a lot of the times when we are helping someone work through something we often reflect on personal journeys and this time was no different, I went back briefly to aContinue reading “The TRUTH about the TRUTH!”

Communication.. Assuming abandonment

Friend: Hi…feeling really vulnerable, exposed and fearful right now. I am afraid to be honest with him, about it because I feel like its my stuff…this is probably ridiculous, but I am noticing abandonment stuff coming up over little things. Like tonight he didn’t respond to a text when he has mostly done so…and yetContinue reading “Communication.. Assuming abandonment”

Make 2014 Your year for Healing!!!

Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!

Assumption n. 1. The act of taking to or upon oneself: assumption of an obligation. 2. The act of taking possession or asserting a claim: assumption of command. 3. The act of taking for granted: assumption of a FALSE theory. 4. Something taken for granted or accepted as true without proof; a supposition: a valid assumption. 5. Presumption; arrogance. 6. Logic A minor premise. How doContinue reading “Ass U me! Are you assuming this post is for you.. It is!”

Don’t sweat the small stuff!

      I had spent the previous holiday season physically away from my friends and family on a mission trip and as I lay in my bed I wished I was home and thought of all the things i would be doing if i was home, all the things i wanted to do, allContinue reading “Don’t sweat the small stuff!”

Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!

Friend:  Dear Clark, Once again My twin has hurt my heart. I am struggling with this emotional roller coaster. I am trying to line my self up with my vortex & manifest a new life. I keep thinking that I am good & at peace with where I am. But I am obviously not. ThisContinue reading “Swans energy of connection… What twins endure!”

Be Vulnerable?

Vulnerability and you…..   Had an amazing meeting last night where it seemed that vulnerability was the topic of discussion this ranged from rejection to fear of rejection to the inevitable why someone makes the choices they make whether it is showing a side of themselves that has the ability to make them look weak.Continue reading “Be Vulnerable?”