What every man should know….. Things to know about a woman!


Things to know about women!

When she stare’s at your mouth!

[Kiss her!]

When she pushes you or hit’s you!

[Grab her and dont let go!]

When she start’s cursing at you!

[Kiss her and tell her you love her!]

When she’s quiet!

[Ask her whats wrong!]

When she ignore’s you!

[Give her your attention!]

When she pull’s away!

[Pull her back!]

When you see her at her worst!

[Tell her she’s beautiful!]

When you see her start crying!

[Just hold her and dont say a word!]

When you see her walking!

[Sneak up and hug her waist from behind!]

When she’s scared!

[Protect her!]

When she lay’s her head on your shoulder

[Tilt her head up and kiss her!]


When she steal’s your favorite shirt!

[Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night!]

When she tease’s you!

[Tease her back and make her laugh!]

And when she is ornery!

[Hold her down and blow razz-berries on her belly!]

When she doesn’t answer for a long time!

[Reassure her that everything is okay!]

When she look’s at you with doubt!

[Back yourself up!]

When she say’s that she like’s you!

[She really does more than you could understand!]

When she grab’s at your hands!

[Hold her’s and play with her fingers!]

When she bump’s into you!

[Bump into her back and make her laugh!]

When she tell’s you a secret!

[Keep it safe and untold!]

When she looks at you in your eyes!

[Don’t look away until she does!]

When she misses you!

[She’s hurting inside!]

When you break her heart!

[The pain never really goes away!]

When she’s mad!

[Hug her tight and don’t let go!]

Call her at 12:00am!

[On her birthday to tell her you love her!]

Treat her!

[Like she’s all that matters to you!]

Stay up all night with her!

[When she’s sick!]

Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show!

[Even if you think its stupid!]

Give her!

[The world!]

Let her!

[Wear your clothes!]

Let her know!

[She’s important!]

Kiss her!

[In the pouring rain!]

When she runs up at you crying!

[The first thing you say is; “Who’s ass am I kicking today baby?”  and just hold her!]


The how….

Quote:The most important, the primordial relationship in your life is your

relationship with the Now, or rather with whatever form the Now takes, that is to say, what is or what happens. If your relationship with the Now is dysfunctional, that dysfunction will be reflected in every relationship and every situation you encounter. The ego could be defined simply in this way: a dysfunctional relationship with the present moment. It is at this moment that you can decide what kind of relationship you want to have with the present moment.

The decision to make the present moment into your friend is the end of the ego. The ego can never be in alignment with the present moment, which is to say, aligned with life, since its very nature compels it to ignore, resist, or devalue the Now. Time is what the ego lives on.

The stronger the ego, the more time takes over your life. Almost every thought you think is then concerned with past or future, and you sense of self depends on the past for your identity and on the future for its fulfillment. Fear, anxiety, expectation, regret, guilt, anger are the dysfunctions of the time bound state of consciousness.

There are three ways in which the ego will treat the present moment: as a means to and end, as an obstacle, or as an enemy. Let us look at them in turn, so that when this pattern operates in you, you can recognize it and decide again.  E. Tolle The New Earth 2005!

What is stated here is simple, when you make a relationship out of time you will not be successful in seeing these things in her and she will need and want you to!  Thank you for reading, and love to you in this moment!



Published by Relationship Reinvented


107 thoughts on “What every man should know….. Things to know about a woman!

  1. Good post, clarkkent07. However, when I am cursing and I am angry, it is best to leave me alone! If my significant other tried kissing me while I was angry, I would probably devour him…probably because I am somewhat of a fire-pistol… Perhaps I need to work on this…

    Thanks for taking interest in my new-born baby blog. Hopefully I get lucky and write something decent again!

  2. Wow! Words can’t express how real this article is! You are a gentleman & a scholar, clarkkent07! Fantastic blog. Do I have your permission to share this on fb?

  3. WOW, very deep and so very true. Thank you for sharing. Don’t know how this wouldn’t touch every woman that reads it !!

    1. It was more for the men than it was for the women.. Sometimes they are just unsure of what to do or how to do it.. 😉

      1. If it spread like a cold maybe more of both would get it… I guess it could be they aren’t looking for it to even realize there is a starting point!

      1. Maybe joymzurzolo and I can at last find peace It’s my birthday full of colour and not you. I hope you are happy as I am.

      2. Happiness from love is happiness, happiness from joy is without opposite, happiness from reflection of self is true happiness waiting to find you from the place inside you that wants to see how these very things change everything. If you don’t make this a choice to give love in what you want someone you feel something for to experience. What is it that you do show them?

  4. This is just Super- mannnn!!! Awesome write superman..
    Can see that this write comes from a heart that is in love with himself, a heart that feels no insecurity what so ever n is flowing with love from within!!
    Too cool!! This is gonna be re blogged on ibelivetoday, tomo:)
    If u may allow:)


  5. First thank you for commenting on my blog…I know at lease one person was moved to read my musings and that is a beautiful affirmation. There is such power and spirit in your words…please keep them coming!!

    If you have any helpful tips with this blogging journey I would love your feedback!

    With infinite gratitude,
    Gloria ~ The Grateful Diva

      1. Hey Super man,

        btw, I asked my hubby if I cud wear his t shirt, n he said yes 🙂 n it really felt so cute wearing something oversized 😉

        So ur poem, did inspire a woman too 😉


    1. I can only guide them to the place inside themselves so they can make a free will choice.. Or at least allow them to know there is a choice to be this way!! I will never stop!

  6. I have not been able to find it… every place that gets it… It gets removed.. I can only imagine if they are writing it… we will see a consciousness we have not experienced before… Long overdue!

    1. I would say if you can hear inside your woman’s heart without hearing your own thoughts you will find there is a whole lot more than just this! #knowingishalfthebattle

      1. Well thanks for the follow and feel free to respond to any of my blog sometimes it will call to something in you that will allow you to expand inside yourself! Thanks my friend!

  7. The greatest comment my partner ever makes is
    ‘What can I do for you’…………….
    It always shows me that he;s noticed I;m tired, or stressed, or just pushing myself too much. It really shows me he cares.

    1. Then you my friend should read what I just posted in part 3… He is on a path that you can feel in what I posted. Thanks for your words! It reached me in what I feel in such a way! 😉

    1. I was crying when I wrote it… I was so frustrated with myself and my patterns that kept me from the love of my life.. This was my creed that needed to be written outside myself so my inside self knew the rules!

      1. They are rules, yes. But they are also guidelines. The idea is, you will fail. We all will. We all do. When you fail, you just go back to the guidelines and say, “Oh yeah. I should have done that. Let me try, try again.” Then you forgive each other. Hopefully.

      1. I will most certainly check those parts out. Maybe I will write a female version.

        When he lashes out in anger, understand it’s really pain.
        [sit at his feet and lay your head in his lap]

        or something like that.

    1. In yin and yang they are full circle in connection, so I guess I could answer that with I embrace this place inside me where she is! Yes! 😉 Thank you Summer! your sunshine made me smile!

    1. My friend… I am the love I will ever need it expands into Lois and she is the star that is flying in my universe. She touches places and discovers new planets and places stars in me all the time! I found these places in my being for her. My existence was to be in sync with hers I found this inside myself because of the love she pointed to in me! TY

  8. Just, a 100 percent totally accurate. Maybe I’ll make a print out and give it to my boyfriend :P. beautiful list! x

    1. I actually after I made it had it on my mirror in my bathroom, on my fridge, next to my TV… and on my visor in my car. You see it was about making sure I kept it close to me so when I felt as though I wanted to do the opposite I realized how much love I had in me, it never happened to me before her! She mirrored me back what my soul was. 😉 TY for comment and follow!

    1. My friend… the point of this is not to see just yourself, but to see the energy of what love you feel has the capability of experiencing in the most profound way! How do we break down walls if we never get in tune to the vibrations that one emits. I made this a choice so can anyone else. It is always the choice for closeness and happiness in union.

      1. All relationships are the core relationships of the relationship you have with yourself. This is how dysfunction sets itself into place and you no longer seek to understand you open that door to accept understanding in all things love. To include what would inspire you to experience all things.

  9. Wow Lois Blythe Beverly svet heidichka batty beta and phillyphad must all fell so loved. So very very. Loved and appreciated must feel fixed yellow and want to go back to the start daily.

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