Things to know about women!
When she stare’s at your mouth!
[Kiss her!]
When she pushes you or hit’s you!
[Grab her and dont let go!]
When she start’s cursing at you!
[Kiss her and tell her you love her!]
When she’s quiet!
[Ask her whats wrong!]
When she ignore’s you!
[Give her your attention!]
When she pull’s away!
[Pull her back!]
When you see her at her worst!
[Tell her she’s beautiful!]
When you see her start crying!
[Just hold her and dont say a word!]
When you see her walking!
[Sneak up and hug her waist from behind!]
When she’s scared!
[Protect her!]
When she lay’s her head on your shoulder
[Tilt her head up and kiss her!]
When she steal’s your favorite shirt!
[Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night!]
When she tease’s you!
[Tease her back and make her laugh!]
And when she is ornery!
[Hold her down and blow razz-berries on her belly!]
When she doesn’t answer for a long time!
[Reassure her that everything is okay!]
When she look’s at you with doubt!
[Back yourself up!]
When she say’s that she like’s you!
[She really does more than you could understand!]
When she grab’s at your hands!
[Hold her’s and play with her fingers!]
When she bump’s into you!
[Bump into her back and make her laugh!]
When she tell’s you a secret!
[Keep it safe and untold!]
When she looks at you in your eyes!
[Don’t look away until she does!]
When she misses you!
[She’s hurting inside!]
When you break her heart!
[The pain never really goes away!]
When she’s mad!
[Hug her tight and don’t let go!]
Call her at 12:00am!
[On her birthday to tell her you love her!]
Treat her!
[Like she’s all that matters to you!]
Stay up all night with her!
[When she’s sick!]
Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show!
[Even if you think its stupid!]
Give her!
[The world!]
Let her!
[Wear your clothes!]
Let her know!
[She’s important!]
Kiss her!
[In the pouring rain!]
When she runs up at you crying!
[The first thing you say is; “Who’s ass am I kicking today baby?” and just hold her!]
The how….
Quote:The most important, the primordial relationship in your life is your
relationship with the Now, or rather with whatever form the Now takes, that is to say, what is or what happens. If your relationship with the Now is dysfunctional, that dysfunction will be reflected in every relationship and every situation you encounter. The ego could be defined simply in this way: a dysfunctional relationship with the present moment. It is at this moment that you can decide what kind of relationship you want to have with the present moment.
The decision to make the present moment into your friend is the end of the ego. The ego can never be in alignment with the present moment, which is to say, aligned with life, since its very nature compels it to ignore, resist, or devalue the Now. Time is what the ego lives on.
The stronger the ego, the more time takes over your life. Almost every thought you think is then concerned with past or future, and you sense of self depends on the past for your identity and on the future for its fulfillment. Fear, anxiety, expectation, regret, guilt, anger are the dysfunctions of the time bound state of consciousness.
There are three ways in which the ego will treat the present moment: as a means to and end, as an obstacle, or as an enemy. Let us look at them in turn, so that when this pattern operates in you, you can recognize it and decide again. E. Tolle The New Earth 2005!
What is stated here is simple, when you make a relationship out of time you will not be successful in seeing these things in her and she will need and want you to! Thank you for reading, and love to you in this moment!
CK
Relationship Reinvented LLC 
I absolutely love this : )
if it’s never spoken we would never know!
Good post, clarkkent07. However, when I am cursing and I am angry, it is best to leave me alone! If my significant other tried kissing me while I was angry, I would probably devour him…probably because I am somewhat of a fire-pistol… Perhaps I need to work on this…
Thanks for taking interest in my new-born baby blog. Hopefully I get lucky and write something decent again!
ty and good luck will be following you!
Wow! Words can’t express how real this article is! You are a gentleman & a scholar, clarkkent07! Fantastic blog. Do I have your permission to share this on fb?
absolutely… 🙂
Very nice. It made me smile. Thank you. And thank you for liking a post.
TY and I will be following you! 🙂
lovely post! Your perception of women is well written!
some one needs to tell us the rules… LOL
WOW, very deep and so very true. Thank you for sharing. Don’t know how this wouldn’t touch every woman that reads it !!
It was more for the men than it was for the women.. Sometimes they are just unsure of what to do or how to do it.. 😉
Well it was a good read for us women too 🙂
If it spread like a cold maybe more of both would get it… I guess it could be they aren’t looking for it to even realize there is a starting point!
That’s a very good point and so true !
I would like to share this on my blog as well !!!
Sure my friend.. I would be honored!
Hi there Clarkkent07, very nice post 🙂 and thank you for the Like & link on my article 20 things a man will do if he is not into you – http://bit.ly/Qci6aJ
All the best, Cath
who’s ass am i kicking today baby…classic
Wow. Are you single?
Oh no I have my Lois Lane… see post Dear Lois…
Maybe joymzurzolo and I can at last find peace It’s my birthday full of colour and not you. I hope you are happy as I am.
Happiness from love is happiness, happiness from joy is without opposite, happiness from reflection of self is true happiness waiting to find you from the place inside you that wants to see how these very things change everything. If you don’t make this a choice to give love in what you want someone you feel something for to experience. What is it that you do show them?
This is just Super- mannnn!!! Awesome write superman..
Can see that this write comes from a heart that is in love with himself, a heart that feels no insecurity what so ever n is flowing with love from within!!
Too cool!! This is gonna be re blogged on ibelivetoday, tomo:)
If u may allow:)
Cheers
Shraddha
Sure My Friend… Absolutely!
I absolutely love this post..must share with the world.. and hopefully we will be loved in that way=) Thank you<3
Knowing is everything that is never said.. Now it is! 😉
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Yes..please!
First thank you for commenting on my blog…I know at lease one person was moved to read my musings and that is a beautiful affirmation. There is such power and spirit in your words…please keep them coming!!
If you have any helpful tips with this blogging journey I would love your feedback!
With infinite gratitude,
Gloria ~ The Grateful Diva
My friend such wisdom in your blog.. I felt your words! TY for your kind words those were felt as well!
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awesum one Clark 🙂
Cheers
Shraddha
TY Shraddha! 😉
Hey Super man,
btw, I asked my hubby if I cud wear his t shirt, n he said yes 🙂 n it really felt so cute wearing something oversized 😉
So ur poem, did inspire a woman too 😉
Cheers
Shraddha
Amazing… 🙂
Clark, you left me speechless!
how did I accomplish such a thing?
Beautifully done and very insightful!
TY my friend!
Definitely! You are now my hero! Now please do me a favor and tell more men 🙂
I can only guide them to the place inside themselves so they can make a free will choice.. Or at least allow them to know there is a choice to be this way!! I will never stop!
This is perfect!
I love your style of writing.
🙂
Don’t forget (MAN OF STEEL) movie next year. yay!!!
Yes should be epic…TY my friend!
And of course, “Christopher Nolan” is writing the story…That man is a genius. Especially with the (The Dark Knight).
David S. Goyer and him both understand storytelling should be amazing!
Yes…Exactly.
Have you seen the footage they released at comic-con? I saw it bootleg online…it blow my mind away…This Superman is the real deal. They are not messing around anymore. It’s dark.
I have not been able to find it… every place that gets it… It gets removed.. I can only imagine if they are writing it… we will see a consciousness we have not experienced before… Long overdue!
Took my breath away. Thank you.
Knowing is half the battle! 😉
Everything I was missing
You weren’t missing just forgot to add… copy and paste my friend copy and paste! 😉
Very nice, very insightful 🙂
ty my friend.. its always a work in progress…
I love this
TY 😉
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As an independent women, I would be lying if I said this was not what I wanted. If only every man knew to do these things for their woman.
this is part 1?? you telling me there’s a part 2, and, God forbid, maybe a part 3 and 4 too?! #fear
I would say if you can hear inside your woman’s heart without hearing your own thoughts you will find there is a whole lot more than just this! #knowingishalfthebattle
well, i look forward to reading more! #thankyou #learning
Well thanks for the follow and feel free to respond to any of my blog sometimes it will call to something in you that will allow you to expand inside yourself! Thanks my friend!
I too, anxiously await, to hear more…… and more
How did you get to be so clever? Lois is very lucky to have such an intuitive man!
Not sure Clever is a word I would use.. Vibrational energy is present in all things her’s just speaks to me in such a way my friend!
I am inspired to hear of love like this. It is a wonderful thing.
It more than exist we are proof!
Exactly. It is pure.
The greatest comment my partner ever makes is
‘What can I do for you’…………….
It always shows me that he;s noticed I;m tired, or stressed, or just pushing myself too much. It really shows me he cares.
Then you my friend should read what I just posted in part 3… He is on a path that you can feel in what I posted. Thanks for your words! It reached me in what I feel in such a way! 😉
This is beautiful. I have to share if you don’t mind 🙂
most certainly my friend!
well right now it is impressing the lady’s in Twitville!
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Reblogged this on the sacred road and commented:
the go to guide for how to love a romantic. poignantly and beautifully stated. xx
Made me cry. 😉
I was crying when I wrote it… I was so frustrated with myself and my patterns that kept me from the love of my life.. This was my creed that needed to be written outside myself so my inside self knew the rules!
They are rules, yes. But they are also guidelines. The idea is, you will fail. We all will. We all do. When you fail, you just go back to the guidelines and say, “Oh yeah. I should have done that. Let me try, try again.” Then you forgive each other. Hopefully.
If you go you will find there is a part 2 and a part 3… it does evolve and it does get added to! thank you for your kind words and you deep understanding!
I will most certainly check those parts out. Maybe I will write a female version.
When he lashes out in anger, understand it’s really pain.
[sit at his feet and lay your head in his lap]
or something like that.
Let me know when it’s posted I would love to read it my friend!
The right words! Are you a woman too 😉
Greetings, Summer
In yin and yang they are full circle in connection, so I guess I could answer that with I embrace this place inside me where she is! Yes! 😉 Thank you Summer! your sunshine made me smile!
I think every women who reads this just fell in love with you. LOL
My friend… I am the love I will ever need it expands into Lois and she is the star that is flying in my universe. She touches places and discovers new planets and places stars in me all the time! I found these places in my being for her. My existence was to be in sync with hers I found this inside myself because of the love she pointed to in me! TY
Just, a 100 percent totally accurate. Maybe I’ll make a print out and give it to my boyfriend :P. beautiful list! x
I actually after I made it had it on my mirror in my bathroom, on my fridge, next to my TV… and on my visor in my car. You see it was about making sure I kept it close to me so when I felt as though I wanted to do the opposite I realized how much love I had in me, it never happened to me before her! She mirrored me back what my soul was. 😉 TY for comment and follow!
I love this!! My Twin sent this to me!
Awe … 😉
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incredible…
I LOVE This. 🙂
🙂 Now you know how to answer when someone ask you what you want for starters… 🙂
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Well said!
My friend… the point of this is not to see just yourself, but to see the energy of what love you feel has the capability of experiencing in the most profound way! How do we break down walls if we never get in tune to the vibrations that one emits. I made this a choice so can anyone else. It is always the choice for closeness and happiness in union.
I agree completely. This post is beautiful, I’ve already shared with several clients. Thank you! I love it!
All relationships are the core relationships of the relationship you have with yourself. This is how dysfunction sets itself into place and you no longer seek to understand you open that door to accept understanding in all things love. To include what would inspire you to experience all things.
Thank you for sharing your words, thoughts and humour with the world. This post is lovely! Keep up the great writing! :~)
Thank you my friend
Wow Lois Blythe Beverly svet heidichka batty beta and phillyphad must all fell so loved. So very very. Loved and appreciated must feel fixed yellow and want to go back to the start daily.
Exquisite post Clark Kent ~ your Louis is a VERY lucky lady indeed. I will be printing this one for sure!! 🙂 ~ Loved —
x RL
🙂 thank you!
I love this. Thank you!
😉
Brilliant I love this, there is so much truth in its simplicity 🙂
thank you dear soul…